How many choices do we get.....

"Life constantly hands us those two choices: get busy living or get busy dying. Which will you chose? . . . Someone once told me the difference between a rut and a grave is this: a rut has a little more room to move around. When I find myself in a rut, I know I better get out fast before it becomes a grave." -Regina Brett

The above quote was recently brought to my attention by a friends social networking post, and on the surface most people are going to see this as inspiration and uplifting. I on the other hand think of it as wrong and contributing to much of peoples sufferance, something I wrote about in a previous blog. First of all if you are not dead, you are alive. Simple fact. Accept it. Not accomplishing every goal you set out for, or not making a great moment happen in everyday of your life does not mean that you are not living.  We get caught up in the rational that we have to live life to it's fullest. However, that rationale is inherently flawed. All you are doing is living life in a constant chase, and you will never feel relaxed. And you never will feel sated. Have goals, and accomplish goals. Just understand that is all they are. They are the future and eventually the past, and what really matters and what really defines living is now.

The pursuit of...

I have been a Buddhist for about a decade now, and one thing that the western world greatly confuses with Buddhism is the Pursuit of Happiness. People tend to believe that a Buddhist after years of practice can reach enlightenment thus experiencing Nirvana and have a life of eternal happiness. The funny thing is, the individuals who have supposedly reached this state usually then go on an attempt to make a profit. The reality of it is, is any pursuit of anything is suffering. That is not to say that you should never pursue things, just that you should know that your happiness should not derive form those pursuits. A lot of people tend to live a very binary lifestyle. We tend to look at our lives as the good and bad and neglect the rest. There will always be good and bad moments but they are such a minority in the existence of ourselves. Fractions of a percent usually account for the good and bad moments in the day, the rest are the things we tend to neglect to acknowledge. So much of our day feels so unaccounted for. I am talking about moments like driving, sleeping, eating, using the bathroom, walking from room to room, etc.. The things that truly make up your life, the moments most of us disregard. That is what Buddhism tries to teach us, to be mindful of our surrounding as much as possible. To pay attention to those moments we normally disregard, since that is what composes most of our life. You can enjoy the good times, and will most likely relish the bad, but realize those moments are the minority in your life.

What reality truly is, is only right now. The past becomes convoluted over time and eventually begins to stray from truth. The future is not existent and you can never realistically envision a 100% accurate future. If we dwell on the past, and dream about the future we will again be disregarding what matters most which is right now. Which is more times than not those same moments we disregard that I mentioned above.

Please do not take away from this, that I am saying to ignore the past and never dream of the future. Please do have memories, and please do have goals and aspirations for the future. Just be aware of now, as that is what matters most. Now doesn't have to be spectacular, but it is what counts most.

Also if you want to experience Nirvana, then here you go.

Manifesto

This blog will be a journey for me and any of those who choose to read it. It will be a journey through life with all of its ups and downs but always attempting to maintain that middle road. These posts will be my thoughts, feeling, goals, aspirations, and guidance for myself. If anything I ever say on this blog helps another, then that is wonderful.